Do It for the Story

We’ve been talking a lot about living our damn lives. About getting out of our own heads long enough to actually experience them. And I’ve been thinking about what happens when we do. Because somewhere between making the plans, changing the plans, and...

Live Your Damn Life

We’ve been doing a lot of thinking around here lately. We’ve talked about beginning again when we don’t know what comes next. Wanting something different even when nothing is necessarily wrong. Discovering we might be stronger than we thought. Turning down the noise...

But What If We’re Not A Project?

I’m not sure when we all decided we were supposed to be so good at being human. Think about it: we’re supposed to say the right thing, make the right choice. We’re supposed to have the difficult conversation with no anxiety whatsoever. Know when to stay and when to...

When Did That Become Your Voice?

There are a lot of voices in our heads that sound remarkably like our own. You should probably be doing more. You should have figured this out by now. You used to be better at this. Everyone else seems to know what they’re doing. This is what someone your age should...

Maybe Strength Looks Like A Tuesday.

There are some things I wish we could know about ourselves ahead of time. I wish we could know how we’re going to handle the thing we’re worried about before it happens. I wish we could know we’ll make the right decision when the moment comes, that we’ll figure out...

You Don’t Have to Know What Comes Next

There’s something about deciding to make a change that makes us think we should also know exactly what happens next. We want the plan. The timeline. Some reassurance that the decision we’re making is the right one and that if we take this first step, we’ll...